well for now, i extended my display onto the TV, then i swapped displays (maintaining per-display mode settings) and it looks great, i can go to hulu, and other websites with video, or play movies from the HD and full screen them, looks just like i was watching them on TV, and i figured that Callandor but i dont have that many RCA's available that would be long enough so i got these:
http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&ssPageName=STRK:MEWNX:IT&item=220380721930they were only $15 bucks. but thanks for everyone's input, next weekend i am going to try and go get the HD DVR from my cable company and they assured me there was an optical Sp/DiF audio out on the box, if that's the case, then i am in business. everything will be connected and work as 1 complete unit, TV, Stereo (and components) and PC, and i am pretty happy with the Video Card so far, i got the best price on MWAVE.com. i think it was $129.99 so until something else stumps me i am Good!
Thanks Again,
SuRReaL