Very apparently after much more searching..this is an issue that per usual MSFT has chosen to ignore as they do with 90% of their hack code. Simply discovered that it runs fine very early in the day and very late in the day when there are not a lot of active(40? is a lot). The whole problem is MSFT has never had an os that understood how to manage memory, or maintain decent network connectivity. Did Dave Cutler loose his superman abilities when he got inti the rain forest?
I'll simply have to live with more MSFT inadequacies.