>> change the settings to 5-5-5-15-2T
Yes, but I thought you were going in the wrong direction. Dropping from 18 to 15 makes the ram run 'faster' (aka: tighter timings).
The higher the ram speed usually the 'looser' the timings need to be.
The specs I found since then say that these are rated for 1066 @ 5-5-5-18-2T @ 2.1v.
Wait a second, most mobos I have seen need to have the bus speed manually set to for ram 1066MHz and above. For some reason the bios wants to set it at 800MHz
Try manually setting them to 1066MHz 5-5-5-15- 2T @ 2.1v (their specs as far as I can tell).
If they keep dropping down to 800, try 6-6-6-15/18-2T
If they are still flaky on boot, add .05 volts (point zero-five) at a time, up to a MAX of 2.3v. Hopefully you won't need to do this or at least stop by 2.2v