Refer
http://objectmix.com/microsoft-exchange/267005-exchange-2003-errors-event-id-4006-7002-7004-a.html - see if the solution helps.
There is a way to manage connections on Exchange allowing you to set the amount of messages being sent out at any given time. Check server set up as per -
http://technet.microsoft.com/en-us/library/aa996805(EXCHG.65).aspx and see if you can reduce the number of connections that the server handles at any given time -
http://technet.microsoft.com/en-us/library/bb123637(EXCHG.65).aspx