I find it strange that I can see the memory through all the other usual utilities but I can't use it. I did notice that the 1GB modules have chips on both sides while the original ones have them only on one side, but I believe this does not matter for DDR - DIMM memory modules.
you comment above: this does matter for certain motherboards expecially older ones, if you motherboard only has 2 slots I would suggest taking your ram back and asking for single sided ram, as your motherboard quite possibly cannot handle so many banks of memory. this has been an issue i have had previous times and always now only buy 1 sided ram sticks.