Question : Problem: I would like to learn how to Overclock RAM/CPU etc....

Hello, I am trying to find a website or if anyone on here is willing to chat with me on a messanger and teach me how to overclock my CPU and RAM.  I have learned quite a bit but I still have some questions and I am hoping to get some more answers.  Please help thanks.

Answer : Problem: I would like to learn how to Overclock RAM/CPU etc....

Luckily I was able to get a decent overclock before all this happened, that was 3.825 Ghz, FSB at 425 x 9 and DDR2 9200 Ram timings of 5-5-4-12 with 333/1066 for the divider. Other settings including voltages were CPU at 1.3500V, NB 1.37V, RAM 2.23V, Thermal management; disabled and C1; disabled.

This is a cpu that has tons of headroom but it is so pricey that I can see why you are nervous. http://www.nextlevelhardware.com/cpu/qx9650/index.html
These people pushed to 4 if I read it right. Your board is also made for overclocking. http://www.hothardware.com/Articles/NVIDIA_nForce_790i_SLI_Ultra_and_GeForce_9800_GX2/?page=6
This ddr 3 would scale with your board http://www.xbitlabs.com/news/memory/display/20080228180835_Kingston_Achieves_Unprecedented_Memory_Speeds_with_DDR3_Nvidia_s_New_Core_Logic.html
So you have bought yourself an enthusiasts board for your first overclocking attempt. Balsy but go for it. Start reading these links carefully to get it clear in your mind how to procede