There are two folders where ITunes stores the information
iTunes Library.itl
iTunes Music Library.xml
That are located in "C:\%User%\My Music\iTunes\"
The .itl is the actual library
As to my knowledge ITunes only stores the path of the file, and doesn't copy the file.
You can set up Itunes to consolidate your library, that means that ITuens will search yor computer for music and will move the files to the default location, normally
"C:\%User%\My Music\iTunes\iTunes Music"
If you open the iTunes Library.it with a word procesor, delete it's contens and save it again with a 0 byte length upon starting ITunes you'll get a notice telling you that the library is corrupt and Itunes will try to recrate it from iTunes Music Library.xml
So if you know the old path and the new one clean the .itl, open the xml and do a search & replace to change the old path with the new path, and then OPEN ITunes.
If you lost the files then open ITunes, menu>Add folder and add the folders with the music, the library will be updated